Over the next couple of weeks, I’ll be sharing some “Dad hacks” from a Marc Picket, who is raising two young kids on his own. I love his approach and hope it can help us all see a different perspective.
The first dad hack to help fix my mindset is to realize that with kids 3 and 5 years old, I only have them both in the house for 13 more years.
That's 676 weeks. I made a chart showing what this looks like. If every O is a weekend, then this means I have this many weeks with them:
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If the kids are anything like I was, by the time they're 12 they'll be more interested in hanging out with their friends than with their "lame" parents. So the number of weeks that I have to hang out with my kids who think their dad is pretty cool is half that.
Whenever I get the temptation to plop them in front of the TV so I can get some rest, I mentally picture this chart, which helps motivate me to stop work / Facebook / sleeping and spend time with them.
