Being perfect or being real?
Doing what’s best for you or doing what’s best for others?
Being connected or being present?
Practicing that presentation or having coffee with someone new?
Being available or being busy?
Talking or listening?
Answering that email or answering that cry for attention?
Cleaning the house or curling up and reading?
Doing something you love or doing something for someone you love?
Doing or being?
Trusting yourself or trusting others?
There are no right answers, and your answers will change each day. The key is asking and not defaulting. Better yet, teach your kids to do the same.